Sunday, November 4, 2007

My life so far

What am I doing here? How many times I have asked myself that question during my life? And the answer is, whatever I am feeling at the moment.

Like the time a Chinese news reporter in Bejing suddenly pushed a microphone in my face and harshly asked, “Why you here?” At first, I was startled at the variation of the very same question I had asked myself so many times. But I quickly recovered and said, “I am here to visit your culture and to understand that our true desires are basically the same.” She liked that answer. I made the nightly news!

Born in Brooklyn, New York, the first child of a young couple who rejoiced at my birth in the late 1930s. They were trying to start a family for over two years. They finally decided to take a weekend in Lake George, New York and it was there that I was conceived.

I wonder why they didn’t call me Georgiana or Georgia. Instead, they named me Virginia. I guess they got their geography mixed up.

I often look at my feet and think of all the places they have been. If I knew what was in store for them, I would have taken much better care of them. Each crease depicts yet another journey they have carried me on.

I married a handsome fellow who got a job with the airlines and it was cheaper to travel than stay home. And, boy oh boy, travel we did. We went first class on the airline and stayed in Motel Six when Motel Six really meant $6.00 a day.

My children love to travel as well in their careers and countries. My first child, my son Richard, is a Financial Advisor. This is really his sixth career. I also have three daughters. Christine is a Psychologist – Educational Assessment. She started as a teacher and now is in business for herself. Kathy is a Chief Nursing Officer who she started as a nurse in the emergency room when she was 18. My daughter Kim hosts a national radio show about living into today’s digital life.

Kim's the one that got me into this blog-thing. I guess I am the one that got her into computers. She started in computers by going to work with me when she was sick.

I went to work at Bell Laboratories in 1975 and they had no sick time. They let me bring Kim in when she was not able to go to school. I would give her some medicine, she would put her head on the desk and go to sleep. And when she woke up, she would play with Unix on the Bell Labs' computers. The rest is history, as they say.

I have traveled to many places in the United States, including Hawaii and Alaska. I also love to venture all over the globe.

My passports have stamps from Russia, China, India, Greece, Galapagos Islands, Ecuador, Germany, France, England, New Zealand, and Australia. Then there are the visits to Canada, Spain, Italy, Portugal, Wales, Africa, Egypt, Turkey, Mexico, and Singapore. I've also traveled extensively throughout Thailand, Belgium, Netherlands, Norway, Denmark, Sweden, Finland, Tibet, Ireland, Scotland, Tahiti, the Caribbean Islands, Costa Rica, Hong Kong, a Cruise through the Panama Canal, and more.

Soon, I'll be spending time in Brazil and then onto Antartica. And this is why my family calls me, "Waldo." They often wonder where in the world I am or will be heading to next.

People ask me why I travel so much. The truth is that I am not searching for anything. I just enjoy experiencing what different people do with what they are born into.

Who could imagine a kid from Brooklyn would have a life like mine? Only God.

29 comments:

Anonymous said...

What a wonderful life you have led. You have been truly blessed. I feel like I know you from listening to your daughter Kim on the radio! She is amazing!

Let us hear about how you are getting ready for your next trip. Will you be able to blog from down there?

Your 'new' friends in Chicago,
Mark and Dolores

Anonymous said...

What a great time you have had. my husband also worked for an airlines, the one that came in and fired all their aircraft mechanics 2 yrs ago. Anyway, it was fun the 20 yrs he worked there. We never got to go overseas but just flying to minnesoto all the time was great. I love that place. Now we just drive, like in the old days. lol , have fun on your journeys

Anonymous said...

In my family, we say we ladies have a gasoline rear, say "road trip" and we're ready. I gave the US Navy over 20 years and enjoyed every new city and country. BTW, I've got you beat, I made the ditch trip twice ... one in each direction! I'm looking forward to reading about your time on the ice. Because of my husband's medical problems that was one duty station I was NOT allowed to request. As we say in the Nav. Fair Winds and Following Seas.

Anonymous said...

I love reading blogs and look forward to adding yours to those I read on a regular basis. Have a wonderful trip to Antarctica. I have a friend who will be there at about the same time doing nature/painting lessons for passengers on one of the ships.

kernscot said...

Good Morning Mrs. Komando:
It is so nice to meet you through Kim's help! She is a great help to all of us computer novices. I haven't travelled to as many places as you have, but I share your interest in learning about the world and its people. I have a friend who is a retired pilot who made many flights to Antartica, some a little hair raising before they got the "kinks" worked out. Now it is pretty routine. Enjoy this great exprience!
I congratulate you on your wonderful family, and thank you for taking Kim to work with you!
Nancy

Richard Lee Van Der Voort said...

You are doin' good, Momma! Keep writing. Keep introspecting to see what you have to say. Tip: get and read any books by Tristine Rainer on autobiographical writing. You will learn how to mine your experience and find out what you have to say in writing. Richard e-mail address: rich_vandervoort@yahoo.com

Gary said...

I love this technological world and all the new ways to communicate. I love it, love it, love it. I loved writing letters and taking pictures to share with family and friends, but with new technology my family base is larger (not really, but able to write to more of them) and my friend base is worldwide. I think back 20 years and see the changes and looking forward to what the next 20 years will bring. Traveling around the world is also an incredible experience, not like the old days. Why not take advantage of the technology available. Virginia, thanks for sharing your blog with us... and keep on tripping... 8>) ... gn

Anonymous said...

Dear Virginia : Forgive me for taking the liberty of calling you by your first name. I did it because I am much older than you.It seems that I older than anyone.

At 92, I decided it was time to construct my own website (for the residents of our condo) and I did.

See it at:
www.webspawner.com/users/85ontario/

Your blog is outstanding. I liked the format and the honest way you write. Kim's column is my favorite.
Her tip and site are the first thing I read each day.

I hope you come back safely from the Arctic and am looking foward to reading you future blogs.

Dr.Ronald Macpherson
ronmac60@cogeco.ca

Anonymous said...

You are doing for your family such a wonderful thing by reminiscing and putting your thoughts into words, many years from now there will be no guess work on what your feelings were on all the topics within your blog. I only wish my parents and grandparents had taken advantage of this same opportunity before passing on. Have a great trip as the world traveler you are, keep us all informed of your adventures both near and far, exciting or mundane. Have fun and be safe you are enjoying life!

kathy said...

I so appreciate your story telling and reflective style. I'll enjoy reading about your adventures, but most importantly your insights going forward. I work in Knowledge Transfer-- I teach companies, groups, people, to share expert knowledge between boundaries like age or geography. You are doing just that-- sharing the insights you have with technology that the youngest in our workforce embraces. Very nicely done. If you don't mind, I'd like to feature your blog on my own-- klhagen.com/provokingthought
You are a great example of how insights and experiences bridge gaps of all types. Thank you for your thoughtful sharing.

Anonymous said...

Very new to this blogging ... Must admit though, after reading youir blog, I am tempted to write my own. Not that I am a world traveller, actually our life is quite mundane, but we are enjoying every moment that we have in our retirement.

Thank you for sharing your interesting life and look forward to hearing of your time on the ice!

Unknown said...

My sister works for an airlines and many years ago, for having not taken any sick days during the year, she received a free ticket for a companion to travel with her.... I was lucky enough to be that companion. We went to Great Britain. Since then I have been to England once more as well as Europe and a few places in the US. I understand your desire to travel just to learn about other cultures... I would love to be able to do it if only my finances would allow... I'll enjoy reading about yours.

Sallie in Washington (not DC)

Unknown said...

I've only been overseas once, to Italy. I'm looking forward to "traveling" with you via your blog. It is great to see how the rest of the world lives.

PearlyV said...

Love the reflective way you write! I will be sure to keep up with Waldo as much as possible. I am about to retire and hope to do more travelling myself. In the meantime, I'll just go along with you, if you don't mind.

By the way, I learn so much from Kim. I am in charge of the technology in my school district, but have not had much formal traianing--just sort of got roped into it several years ago because I was the one with a computer in my classroom and had students participating in projects with other students across the world. Although I have worked hard to keep up with technologies that enhance our educational efforts, Kim's show and column make the techie stuff so much easier to keep up with.

Thanks for taking her to work with you!

Anonymous said...

Question, when you travel, do you go alone or in travel groups? What a life you have had, and what successful children. WOW. Sharon

spng7 said...

Thank you for giving us Kim and God bless you on your journeys, a retired great-grandmother in Michigan

Andy B. said...

Although you have been incredibly blessed through your travels and experiences, your question, "Why am I here?", is more interesting and significant. I believe anyone who sincerely asks this or similar questions is on the road to receiving their answers (but contrary to popular belief, not all roads lead to Rome!).

Many who never ask questions such as "Why am I here?" have lives that sadly express their unsaid answer, "I'm here because the world revolves around me". For those who sincerely ask this question, they also presuppose that our world never has and never will revolve around anyone.

Questions such as "Why am I here?" also serve as invitations for us to begin the most important journey of our lives. When we finally choose to embark on our Spiritual Journey, we must do so on God's terms and not our own. On our first stop, we must realize our need to trust in Jesus as our only way to receive (and later give) God's unconditional love, acceptance and forgiveness. Along the Way, God will also guide us to a place of real peace through the paths of faith, humility, selflessness and contentment. Only on these roads less traveled can we learn how importnat it is to know, love and serve God. When we travel well before reaching our eternal destination, we discover God's will for our lives and the answer to the question, "Why are we here?".

Be blessed and travel well,

Andy B

Anonymous said...

Hi Momma Komando
Great story of your life. Luckily you didn't have any sick leave and brought Kim to work with you. Her column has helped me a lot, even tho lots of it is beyond my level (I was born in late '30's too). Rita

Anonymous said...

Where's Waldo? Oh, Ms. Virginia, I know that feeling - I used to grab my motorcycle helmet and bike and head off - would call the family later from a hundred or so miles away and they'd say "where are you now?" ;) Life is good - and so is the seeking of it. Happy journeys to you!

CHOMP said...

What a treat to meet you. I love your blog already. My travel is somewhat modest next to yours (and Waldo's). I am the daughter of an Army fella and a step-daughter of a Marine.

I am a new blogger also...only a couple weeks. I put you on my blog favorites so that I don't lose you in blogger-land!

I, too, am looking forward to hearing more of your adventures.

aka catsala

Anonymous said...

Wow you have really trotted the globe. Good for you! I wish I could have had the adventuring spirit but I was content to work in the Veterinary Field for over 25 years. I loved being a Vet Tech but had to quit because of my back injury.
Now I do web design instead.

Your blog is really great and I will be back to see more. Come on over to mine some time and say hello!
http://indigomoonarts.efx2blogs.com/
I read all three of Kim's newsletters, they are great.

Have a great time in Antarctica! I hope you get to see some gorgeous Emperor penguins.
I am a mom too, have a 20 yr old daughter heading off to Humboldt State and a 27 yr old son that works two jobs.
Take care and have a very safe trip.
Jana

Anonymous said...

I love technology that allows us to learn and meet new people. As a matter of fact, I love all the new technology available to us. Thank goodness for Kim Komando and all her advise. I read her newsletters daily. Best of luck on your travels and I look forward to reading about Antartica. Now I'm asking myself....Why I am here?
Lisa from Illinois

Anonymous said...

I am a friend of a friend of a friend...you get the idea, I think your travel is fascinating and will love to hear firsthand all about your trip to Antartica. Good Luck and stay warm!

Anonymous said...

I love your style of writing, and - what an interesting life!! I hope you keep on writing, so we can all travel with you, and learn all the different things about all the different places, the wonderful people, and the interesting historical things about these places. Have fun, and have wonderful and interesting journeys.

Anonymous said...

What fun. I am a 61 yr old grandmother who, after reading your story, is trying to figure out how to add stamps to my passport.

For now, I will live vicariously through your travels.

God bless & keep you.

Pat in Oklahoma City

Unknown said...

My mother always told me you were an amazing woman!!!!
Lisa

Anonymous said...

"Waldo" - good for you.I have been listening to Kim's show for many years.
I too live in the Phoenix area in an active age 66+ community.
My Son inlaw was the Sr. Load Master on the C17 airplane which downloaded the engine parts & etc. for the disabled ship you referenced.He & his fellow crew have been flying back & forth from New Zealand to Antarctica for many months.
I truly enjoyed your Blog.
Best regards, G. Larry E.

Anonymous said...

Enjoyed your blog. First one I ever visited. Antartica is number 1 on my travel list.

enjoy.

George

Anonymous said...

As many have mentioned here, I have heard many things of you on Kims show, I can't count the many wonderful things that she mentioned about you and your other children, I can only imagine how proud your are of Kim and her accomplishments, just as Kim is so very proud of her mother.

As for your name, Virgina, that is a lovely name, just as you are.

You have been blessed in so many ways, and may the blessings continue on for you and your entire family.

God Bless :)